The other night I asked Rooster to bring home some rubber bands from the office for Chickie Boy. We needed to make a guitar for music class and there were no rubber bands to be found in our house.
But even though Rooster said yes, he would bring them home, the office is a busy place and by the end of the day, he had forgotten.
I was, apparently, in a not so kind or forgiving mood (even though we did manage to scrounge up the three needed rubber bands eventually), and I may or may not have raised my voice in frustration.
I know that I said, and I quote, "Forgetting just means that it was never that important to you to begin with. When something matters, you remember. It's rude, it's disrespectful and it makes you untrustworthy. Decent people don't forget to do what they have said they will do."
Are you with me here? Because I think I was being pretty self righteous and down right mean.
The next morning after dropping the chickies at school, I headed home to gather up the things that I needed for the bible study that I attend once a week. I hopped in the car and drove over, gathered my things from the car, and let myself into our hostess' home.
Which is precisely when I remembered that I was supposed to bring breakfast for the entire group of ladies.
Decent people don't forget to do what they have said they will do.
Yep.
Humble Pie.
On my way back home to get the muffins that I had already planned to bring, I almost choked on my humble pie.
And Rooster when I told him? Was ever so gracious, kind and forgiving of my previous night's behavior.
Although he did laugh at the justice of it all.
Thankful
2 hours ago
10 peeps back:
Don't you just hate when God gives us that Humble Pie. It happens to me ALL the time. I know God is just trying to remind me that there is a certain way I should act even towards my best friend/hubby, but it's still very hard to swallow. I'm glad Rooster was so kind to forgive you and even find a little humor! Your story was a great reminder for me! Thanks.
Ouch.
But isn't it wonderful to have such wonderful forgiving hubbies?
Isn't this usually how things happen? Thank goodness for gracious, kind, and forgiving husbands. I don't know what I would do without mine...and while we're on the subject, thank goodness we have a gracious, kind, forgiving heavenly Father who gently puts us in our place when we need it!:)
Wow! God sure does have a way of teaching us lessons! Don't worry, we have all been there. Saying something we know we shouldn't have. You are just very honest. There are things I have said that I am way too ashamed to write that I ever said.
It seems i eat humble pie several times a week...thank goodness for the wonderful forgiving people in our lives
That was a message that couldn't be missed!
Wait though--you remembered before you got there. I think you're still ahead!
Still, a good lesson for all of us.
I have been in those shoes more times than I'd like to count!!! At least you are humble enough to see your mistake, and work to correct it! Your husband sounds like a very godly man - you should be proud!
Well, you're quite the woman if you're not only willing to admit to your hubby your downfall but to blog about it...you go girl!
BTW, I love the new look of your blog!
Dude.
You are a stronger woman than I am...I totally would never admit anything like that to The Husband.
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